Fatimah was the fifth
child of Prophet Muhammad, Peace Be Upon Him, and
Khadijah. She was born at a time when her father had
begun to spend long periods in the solitude of mountains
around Makkah, meditating and reflecting on the great
mysteries of creation.
When she was five, she
heard that her father had become, a Messenger of God - a
Prophet. His first task was to convey the good news of
Islam to his family and close relatives. They were to
worship God Almighty alone. Her mother, who was a tower
of strength and support, explained to Fatimah what her
father had to do. From this time on, she became more
closely attached to him and felt a deep and abiding love
for him. Often she would be at his side walking through
the narrow roads and alleys of Makkah , visiting the
Kabah or attending secret gatherings of the early
Muslims who had accepted Islam and pledged allegiance to
the Prophet.
The Prophet had a special
love for Fatimah. He once said: "Whoever pleases Fatimah
has indeed pleased God and whoever has caused her to be
angry has indeed angered God. Fatimah is a part of me.
Whatever pleases her pleases me and whatever angers her
angers me."
He also said: "The best
women in all the world are four: the Virgin Mary,
Aasiyaa the wife of Pharoah, Khadijah -Mother of the
Believers (Umm Al Mu'mineen), and Fatimah, daughter of
Muhammad." Fatimah thus acquired a place of love and
esteem in the Prophet's heart that was only occupied by
his wife Khadijah.
Fatimah, was given the
title of "az-Zahraa" which means "the Resplendent One".
That was because of her beaming face, which seemed to
radiate light. It is said that when she stood for
Prayer, the mihrab would reflect the light of her
countenance. She was also called "al-Batul" because of
her asceticism. Instead of spending her time in the
company of women, much of her time would be spent in
Salat, in reading the Quran and in other acts of ibadah.
Fatimah had a strong
resemblance to her father. Aishah, the wife of the
Prophet, said of her: "I have not seen any one of God's
creation resemble the Messenger of God more in speech,
conversation and manner of sitting than Fatimah, may God
be pleased with her.
Fatimah's fine manners and
gentle speech were part of her lovely and endearing
personality. She was especially kind to poor and had no
craving for the ornaments of this world or the luxury
and comforts of life. She inherited from her father a
persuasive eloquence that was rooted in wisdom. When she
spoke, people would often be moved to tears. She had the
ability and the sincerity to stir the emotions.
In the second year after the Hijrah, she received
proposals of marriage through her father, two of which
were turned down. Then Ali, the son of Abu Talib, cousin
of the Prophet, plucked up courage and went to the
Prophet to ask for her hand in marriage. Mohammed
consulted Fatima, whose answer was silence, which was a
sign of consent.
Fatimah's life with Ali
was as simple and frugal as it was in her father's
household. In fact, so far as material comforts were
concerned, it was a life of hardship and deprivation. In
fact, it could be said that Fatimah's life with Ali was
even more rigorous than life in her father's home. At
least before marriage, there were always a number of
ready helping hands in the Prophet's household. But now
she had to cope virtually on her own.
To relieve their extreme
poverty, Ali worked as a drawer and carrier of water and
she as a grinder of corn. One day she said to Ali: "I
have ground until my hands are blistered."
"I have drawn water until
I have pains in my chest," said Ali and went on to
suggest to Fatimah: "God has given your father an amah
(female captives of war)". Reluctantly, she went to the
Prophet, but could not ask him for the amah. She told
her husband upon her return that she could not do it. So
they went back together and asked Mohammed (PBUH), but
his answer was firm:"I will not give to you," he said,
"and let the poor Muslims starve. I have not enough for
their keep..."
The bereavement, which the
family suffered by the death of her sister Ruqayyah, was
followed by happiness when to the great joy of all
believers Fatimah gave birth to a boy in Ramadan of the
third year after the Hijrah. The Prophet called him al-Hasan
which means the "Beautiful One".
One year later, she gave
birth to another son who was called al-Husayn, which
means a diminutive beautiful one. Fatimah would often
bring her two sons to see their grandfather who was
exceedingly fond of them. Later he would take them to
the Mosque and they would climb onto his back when he
prostrated. In the eighth year after the Hijrah, Fatimah
gave birth to a third child, a girl whom she named after
her eldest sister Zaynab who had died shortly before her
birth. This Zaynab was to grow up and become famous as
the "Heroine of Karbala". Fatimah's fourth child was
born in the year after the Hijrah. The child was also a
girl and Fatimah named her Umm Kulthum after her sister
who had died the year before after an illness.
Although Fatimah was so
often busy with pregnancies and giving birth and rearing
children, she took as much part as she could in the
affairs of the growing Muslim community of Madinah.
Before her marriage, she acted as a sort of hostess to
the poor and destitute Ahl as-Suffah. As soon as the
Battle of Uhud was over, she went with other women to
the battlefield and wept over the dead martyrs and took
time to dress her father's wounds. At the Battle of the
Ditch, she played a major supportive role together with
other women in preparing food during the long and
difficult siege. In her camp, she led the Muslim women
in prayer and on that place there stands a mosque named
Masjid Fatimah, one of seven mosques where the Muslims
stood guard and performed their devotions.
It was only through
Fatimah that the progeny of the Prophet was perpetuated.
All the Prophet's male children had died in their
infancy and the two children of Zaynab named Ali and
Umamah died young. Ruqayyah's child Abdullah also died
when he was not yet two years old. This is an added
reason for the reverence, which is accorded to Fatimah.
On his return from the
Farewell Pilgrimage, the Prophet did become seriously
ill. His final days were spent in the apartment of his
wife Aishah. When Fatimah came to visit him, Aishah
would leave father and daughter together.
One day he summoned
Fatimah. When she came, he kissed her and whispered some
words in her ear. She wept. Then again he whispered in
her ear and she smiled. Aishah saw and asked:
"You cry and you laugh at
the same time, Fatimah? What did the Messenger of God
say to you?" Fatimah replied:
"He first told me that he
would meet his Lord after a short while and so I cried.
Then he said to me: 'Don't cry for you will be the first
of my household to join me.' So I laughed."
Not long afterwards the
noble Prophet passed away. Fatimah was grief-striken and
she would often be seen weeping profusely. One of the
companions noted that he did not see Fatimah, may God be
pleased with her, laugh after the death of her father.
One morning, early in the
month of Ramadan, just less than five month after her
noble father had passed away, Fatimah woke up looking
unusually happy and full of mirth. In the afternoon of
that day, it is said that she called Salma bint Umays
who was looking after her. She asked for some water and
had a bath. She then put on new clothes and perfumed
herself. She then asked Salma to put her bed in the
courtyard of the house. With her face looking to the
heavens above, she asked for her husband Ali.
He was taken aback when he
saw her lying in the middle of the courtyard and asked
her what was wrong. She smiled and said: "I have an
appointment today with the Messenger of God."
Ali cried and she tried to
console him. She told him to look after their sons al-Hasan
and al-Husayn and advised that she should be buried
without ceremony. She gazed upwards again, and passed
away. She was just twenty nine years old.
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